You probably can think of someone whom you admire and respect.
What do you admire in them?
Perhaps you admire her ambition to learn new skills. Maybe it is her perseverance to overcome difficulties and hardships. Why can’t that person be you?
The secret is willpower and self-discipline. You have it in you even if you refuse to believe it.
Each one of us is confronted and tempted everyday by an endless stream of temptations; many of which aren’t that important.
Learn to refuse to satisfy all of them, and choose only to satisfy those that are in line with your priorities and values, your willpower and self-discipline become impenetrable.
Try it, you’ll quickly become the woman to admire!